There are many clit stimulators to choose from, and most of them can be used with other sex toys for blended orgasms. To get started, lube up your vulva with a water-based sex toy and spread your labia slightly apart to expose the clit.
Start on a low setting and work yourself into arousal. And remember to charge your vibrator beforehand.
Finger vibrators
A finger vibrator, which attaches to your hand and can be used in several positions, can be very effective. Its small size means it can be positioned anywhere on the vulva for a variety of sensations, including the clitoris. You can also try using it to tease or stimulate the G-spot (on the front wall of the vagina), which is a very sensitive spot for most women and can lead to intense orgasms.
If you’re using it with a partner, be sure to communicate what kinds of stimulation feel good and which ones don’t. It’s also a great idea to start with a low setting and gradually build up to a higher one as your body gets accustomed to the feeling of vibration. You can also try edging, which is the practice of gently stroking and rubbing erogenous zones to intensify pleasure. For example, teasing the neck and nipples before moving on to the inner thighs and clitoris can lead to powerful orgasms.
Whether you’re playing alone or with a partner, make sure to use lube to enhance your experience. You can opt for a water-based or silicone lubricant. A little goes a long way, so apply it liberally to your fingertips and your clit vibrator. Then let the feelings flow! Be sure to wash your vibrator afterward, too.
Egg vibrators
If you’re ready to take your sexual pleasure to a whole new level, try pairing your egg vibrator with other internal toys like a g-spot or anal toy. This allows you to please your clitoris and labia simultaneously, creating a blend of sensations that is sure to induce an orgasm unlike anything else. You can also experiment with different settings on your clit vibrator, moving it around your vaginal area, gliding it over your nipples or belly button, and even using it in doggy style.
When you’re ready to start using your egg vibrator, apply lubricant, which helps reduce friction and makes the experience more pleasurable. Place the tip of your clit vibrator against your clitoral hood or g-spot, and slowly increase the pressure and vibration pattern to find what feels best. You can also use your egg vibe on other erogenous zones, such as the inner thighs and labia.
Vibrating eggs are also great for partner play, and many come with remotes or app controls so you can enjoy hands-free stimulation. Just make sure you have a fully charged battery before you get started. Whether you’re stimulating your own clit or your partner’s, remember to keep communication open, and be sure to ask your partner what they like, too.
Bullet vibrators
A bullet vibrator is a small, discreet sex toy that delivers intense sensation to clitoral areas and other parts of the body. They can be used alone, with a partner or in tandem with other toys to create blended orgasms. Bullet vibrators come in a variety of shapes, sizes and textures. A silicone toy will feel different than a steel or chrome one, and each may offer unique sensations in the way it interacts with lube and the body.
To get the most out of a bullet vibrator, try using it to stimulate other areas of the body first. You can use it to massage the breasts, inner thighs and neck. A vibrator can also be used to masturbate, although it is best to start with a lower intensity setting until you get comfortable with the feeling.
If you have never used a bullet vibrator before, it is a good idea to practice with some lube before you take it to the clitoral hood. It can be a bit intense at first, but getting comfortable with it will make the experience much more enjoyable. You can also experiment with different motions by moving the bullet around your clitoral hood or vulva area. Try making circles with it, gliding it over the labia or stimulating the entrance of your anus (although most bullets aren’t designed for anal insertion). Adding a vibrator to penetrative sex can also add a lot of extra sensation and is fun to try in doggy style or reverse cowgirl position.
Wand vibrators
For clitoral stimulation with a little extra flair, try a wand vibrator. These sex toys provide more general stimulation than bullet or egg vibrators, as they are designed to run over the outside areas of the genitals rather than directly targeting them. This broader contact can make orgasms feel more intense and pleasurable. Whether you choose a wand or other type of vibrator, always apply lube before attempting to use it. This will help the sex toy glide on your skin smoother and allow you to savor each vibration and pulse.
Wands are also great for incorporating into partnered play, as they can be used in tandem with other erogenous zones like the nipples or vulva. Using a wand to target the clitoral hood in positions like reverse cowgirl or spooning can give you mind-blowing blended orgasms.
If you’re feeling a little adventurous, let your partner have control of the wand vibrator and encourage them to explore new angles and intensities with it. 65% of heterosexual women say they don’t have orgasms during partnered sex, so giving up a bit of control can open up a whole new realm of pleasure. Just be sure to use condoms for safety and protection against bacterial vaginosis and other STIs. Also, remember to clean your sex toy after each use.
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