There’s a real stigma about straight men using vibrators. Even with Fleshlights and sex dolls making their way into mainstream culture, guys still have an idea that a toy like this is perverted or something they should feel ashamed about.
However, this isn’t the case! Most people, including straight men, find pleasure from a vibrator and love using it during foreplay and intercourse.
It’s a great way to liven up solo sex
Vibrators can be used for a lot of different purposes, and aren’t just for women. Men can use a vibrator on their partner to enhance penetration during foreplay or intercourse or even during masturbation. Using the vibrator on his nipples, balls, perineum (the area of rough skin between his testicles and anus), and other erogenous zones can give him pleasure that might not be as easily achieved by direct touch.
For men with a small penis, a vibrator can also be used on the frenulum to give him a safe, sensual sensation. Start with the toy on the lowest setting and spend a few minutes gauging how intense the stimulation feels before increasing it. Make sure you have some lube handy if you plan on sharing the vibrator with your partner. STIs can be transmitted by sex toys, so if you’re going to share, make sure to use a condom and disinfect the toy between each person’s usage.
Regardless of gender, any person can learn new ways to pleasure themselves with a sex toy. You can use it to explore a whole range of erogenous zones, and if you get bored, try edging — getting close to coming but then backing off again. This technique increases body awareness and can lead to powerful orgasms, especially if you do it with a buddy.
It’s a memorable guest star during partner sex
While sex toys have certainly become more mainstream, with CVS selling Rabbits and Jennifer Lawrence boasting of her butt plug collection, many men still shy away from bringing vibrators into partner sex. This is a shame, because using a vibrator to stimulate your partner’s cock can be a great way to boost pleasure and orgasms during sex.
Many men first start incorporating vibrators into their sex routine by using them to please their partners during foreplay and intercourse. In one recent study, men who regularly used a sex toy rated higher on erectile function, sexual satisfaction, and orgasms than those who did not use a vibrator.
Vibrators are not gendered, and there are a wide variety of male-specific options for stimulating the anal area. Traditionally shaped ‘classic’ vibes are popular for stroking along the shaft of the penis and close to the clitoris, but they can also hum against other erogenous zones.
There are also a number of prostate massagers that can be used in a similar way, and can be just as satisfying for a man as they are for women. If you want to try this, make sure that it is consensual, and that your partner is aware of what you’re doing. If they’re okay with it, they will probably respond positively – and if not, you can always find another partner.
It’s a great way to combat sexual anxiety
Vibrators are great for enhancing sexual pleasure and can help men combat sex anxiety. They can be used alone or with a partner and can increase physical excitement before intercourse or even help achieve orgasm. They are also a great way to learn about your sensitive areas. However, it is important to read the directions on a vibrator before using it to ensure safety. It is also best to use a lubricant that will not harm the toy or body parts it touches.
During sex, it is important to keep communication open with your partner to avoid sexual anxiety. You can also get in touch with a therapist to discuss your sexual anxieties. They will help you overcome your fears and develop a healthier relationship with your partner.
One of the most common causes of sexual anxiety in men is thinking of sex as a performance. This mindset can cause men to feel self-conscious, worried and tense before or during sex, which can lead to sexual dysfunction like erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation.
Many people are hesitant to try masturbation, but it is a safe and healthy way to explore your sensual pleasures. It can help you figure out what makes you happy and increase your confidence during partnered sex. Moreover, it can help you combat sexual anxiety and find out what your erogenous zones are. It is a good idea to use a lubricant while masturbating. Water-based lubes are a good option for this.
It’s a great way to find out what you like
Many men go through life feeling a vague sense of dissatisfaction with their sexual pleasure or not knowing exactly what they want. Vibrators help them figure out their desires, whether they are used alone or with a partner. This can be a huge step towards greater self-confidence and sexual satisfaction, especially for those with low or painful sensations.
If your guy is new to vibrators, it may take time for him to get comfortable with using them. The best way to do this is by starting slow and using them on different parts of the body. For example, you can gently stroke the nipples or run it over the whole torso first. This will build up an intimate rhythm that will eventually lead to more intense pleasure. Alternatively, you could try running it over the penis, but be careful not to overstimulate it. The key is to ask your guy what feels good and try to work up a sensual rhythm together.
It’s important to talk with your guy about the use of vibrators before things get hot and heavy. This will ensure that he’s comfortable with you using the toy on him and will feel safe. You should also talk about how the toy should be cleaned and any precautions you might need to take for safe use. For instance, porous toys like jelly rubber and elastomer should be washed with gentle soap and water while hard plastic or silicone toys can be cleaned with antibacterial wipes or sprays.
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