Cock rings can be a fun way to boost sexual pleasure. They can trap blood inside the penis and encourage a hard erection or give your partner clitoral stimulation.
To get the most out of your cock ring, it’s important to know how to put it on properly. Here are some pro tips to help you get started: lubricate (silicone-based works best, but avoid oils that can damage silicone toys) before inserting the ring.
1. Apply lubricant
During sexual activity, cock rings apply gentle constriction to the base of your penis and slow down blood flow out of the shaft. This can make the erection you have harder and longer-lasting, which can be useful for people with ED or who just want a hotter hard-on. But you have to do it right, which means not using a cock ring while you’re already hard (or while drinking or being tired), and not leaving it on for more than half an hour or so.
Experts recommend applying lubricant to your penis and the cock ring before sliding it on while you’re flaccid or only semi-erect. This reduces friction and makes wearing the ring feel better—plus, it will help you find one that fits your penis and testicles properly.
You can use a water-based lubricant, but there are specialized cock ring lubes available for purchase that are ideal for this purpose. These lubricants are made specifically to be used with cock rings and can make them more comfortable for long periods of time.
If you’re thinking of trying out a cock ring, it’s best to discuss this with your partner ahead of time. If they’re not into it, there are other ways to add pleasure to sexual intercourse—including simple P-in-V action and oral sex. Remember to practice safe sex and follow our easy tips for protecting yourself against HIV/AIDS and other STIs.
2. Stretch the ring
Cock rings are a great entry point for beginners who want to test the waters of sex toys. They’re cheap, easy to use and come in a variety of sizes. Plus, they’re one of the few sex toys that are specifically made for people with penises!
When a person wears a cock ring, it restricts blood flow from the flaccid penis to keep it hard for longer. This makes them useful for those who struggle with erectile dysfunction, which is more common as we age. It can also be caused by things like drinking too much or being tired, as well as health issues such as diabetes or depression.
A cock ring is safe to use as long as it’s removed before sleeping or having other activities that involve touching the penis. However, it’s recommended that a person only use a cock ring for about half an hour at a time because the restriction of blood flow can cause damage.
If a person feels pain, tingling or a pins and needles type sensation while wearing a cock ring, it should be removed immediately as the ring may be too tight. A person can apply more lubricant to help the ring stretch out for a better fit. Also, be careful when selecting a cock ring, as not all cock rings are the same size. Look for a ring that is beginner-friendly and made from a soft, stretchy material.
3. Slide the ring over the penis
Cock rings are a personal kink for some people, and they can also be used to add extra pleasure to a variety of sexual activities. It’s important to always remember that your safety and the comfort of your partner should be top priority, so make sure you take off the ring if it begins to hurt or causes any discomfort. Generally speaking, cock rings should feel tight without being uncomfortable or causing pain. Pain, numbness or a change in skin color (like becoming bright red or deep purple) indicate that the ring is too tight and needs to be removed immediately.
A cock ring that is activated by a vibrator can be even more stimulating to both the testicles and penis, so it’s important to keep in mind how to use the device correctly. Psychologist and sex expert Antonia Hall recommends sliding the ring on while your penis is flaccid or semi-erect. This can help prevent pinching, irritation and other potential problems. You may also want to consider using lube on the ring and your testicles/penis to make it easier to slip on and remove.
If you’re not sure what size cock ring to wear, try out a kit like this one from PlayZone that comes with multiple sizes so you can experiment until you find the perfect fit. This kit uses premium silicone Xact-Fit rings and features adjustable settings for added customization.
4. Place the ring around the penis
The most important thing to remember with cock rings is that they are meant to be worn for short bursts of time. They restrict blood flow to the penis, and cutting off that supply for too long can cause pain, swelling, or even penile strangulation (yikes!). The general industry recommendation is that people wear cock rings for no more than 30 minutes, but if they do it’s best to remove them right away if the penis begins to feel numb or starts swell.
To put a cock ring on, start by applying some lube and stretching the ring open as wide as possible. Position the ring around the base of the penis, and slide it down until it feels snug but not tight (there are some that go up farther, and others that can be used on the testicles, too). If the ring is positioned too low, it may pinch the skin or the pubic hair. If the ring is placed too high, it could slip off or get in the way of putting on a condom.
Once the ring is positioned, it’s a good idea to apply more lube to make sure it doesn’t grip or rub on any erogenous zones. Some cock rings have little bumps that are meant to grab onto the skin, and some come with a nipple-friendly insert to help you get a better hold. You can also use a cock ring in combination with other sex toys, like butt plugs or wand vibrators, for more climax-inducing fun.
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