So, you’re thinking about dipping your toes into the world of BDSM. While the kink community has gotten a skewed reputation from media portrayals (please retire your copy of Fifty Shades), kink toys can be an incredible way to explore and push your limits in a safe environment.
Bondage gear is a beautiful way to add power and control to your playtime. Collars are a sign of submission to your master, while ball gags allow for intense mouth play including delicious drool play!
Bondage Gear
Bondage gear can help make BDSM more approachable to people who might be hesitant about this side of their sexual interests. It can also enhance a partner’s experience and give them an exciting new way to explore their sensual limits with a dominant or submissive partner.
Some of the best BDSM bondage accessories are designed to provide discreet, private play and to be easily taken out of sight and out of mind when not in use. For example, an overdoor tie is a simple but effective anchor point that slips over a door without any fixings and fits on leather bondage cuffs to keep the wrists apart in a St Andrew’s cross position, perfect for BDSM with floggers, crops or canes.
Some kink and fetish gear is incredibly durable and can be used again and again for intense, prolonged scenes. This is particularly true for leather bondage harnesses, collars and restraints, which can be fashioned into many different ties and positions with a little practice. Many BDSM lovers also like the idea of having a custom rig made that can be broken down, stored in a bag and carried with them on holiday or to a kink party for quick set up at home or a venue.
Harnesses
Harness is a leather accessory, which will help to highlight the waist area of the figure. It is worn over a dress, blouse, or T-shirt. It can also be worn under a blouse or bra as an erotic accessory. A harness attracts attention, so it is important to choose the right outfit for it. Avoid wearing it with mini-skirts and short dresses, as this will create a vulgar image. You should also avoid excessive decor, catchy drawings, ruffles or flounces, as these will distract from the main effect of the accessory.
The Stockroom offers a wide selection of BDSM gear, including handcuffs and restraints, nipple clamps, and spanking paddles. These are perfect for experimenting with bondage and discipline play, but you can also level up to whips or riding crops for more intense experiences. In addition, we have a selection of kink toys that can be used in combination with these items for added sensations, like blindfolds and ticklers. These are great for beginning your BDSM journey and learning what your limits are. Ultimately, BDSM is about self-expression and freedom to be your most sexually liberated self.
Collars
In the BDSM world, collars are a way to restrict movement or enhance sensation for submissives. You can use collars with a harness to carefully move a partner around the room or fasten them to cuffs for more intense bondage play. You can also find collars that can be worn on the chest or neck for top-dom control.
While BDSM toys have traditionally been associated with gendered imagery, the new wave of kink gear is more inclusive than ever before. For example, one brand sells nipples clamps with a colorful rainbow color scheme that’s aimed to appeal to people of all sexualities and gender identities.
Other brands, like Wild Wolf Leatherwork, feature women of color and LGBTQ+ people on their marketing material, a welcome shift from the traditional black silicone ball gag and leather restraints that typically come with kink-themed products. This type of reimagination of BDSM tools is making it easier for people to get involved in the world of bondage, domination, and masochism without feeling uncomfortable or unsafe. Just make sure you’re in a safe setting before you begin playing with any BDSM toys or equipment.
Ball Gaga
While they may seem like a hardcore component of the BDSM community, gags are actually a great beginner bondage toy. Often referred to as “open-mouth” gags, they consist of a rubber ball inserted into the mouth behind the teeth and secured by straps around the head. These gadgets also have holes in them for breathing, which makes them a safe option for novices.
This type of play can increase both mental and physical arousal in submissives. Many kinksters enjoy using the gag to create moments of animal instincts, while the dominant partner (also known as the dom) relishes in having complete control over their partner.
Before using a gag, it is recommended that both parties agree on a safe word or signal to use in case the need for a break arises. This is especially important because the gag will render speech indecipherable, making communication difficult. This bondage toy is a great way for a dom to build trust with their slave, which can lead to many sexual adventures in the future. Many kinksters choose to use gags in combination with other toys, such as cuffs and a mini flogger.
Floggers
Flogging is a popular kink activity for bottoms and tops. Some people get weak in the knees at the idea of a spanking, while others quiver with pleasure at the feel of the paddle or flogger. In addition to providing pleasure, flogging can also release endorphins, which help relieve stress and anxiety.
A flogger is a multi-thonged whip that can be used for sensory stimulation and power exchange, as well as punishment. Regardless of the intended use, it is important to practice safety and set clear boundaries and a safe word before beginning play. It is also recommended to start with lighter floggers and gradually work up to heavier ones as you gain experience.
Whether you’re a beginner or a seasoned veteran, there are many different types of floggers available to suit your needs. Choose from suede, full-grain leather, or even vegan leather for different sensations and intensities. With a little time and patience, you can find the flogger that’s right for you!
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